Today is a my friend wedding day, between NUR SARAH & MUHAMAD TAUFIQ.. congratulations sarah & her husband, Taufiq. i prays to ALLAH may ALLAH bless your marriage and happy forever, insyallah. (^_^)
Talking about married.. why people get married? actually, who doesn't want to get married? to have the beloved one who always close to us, having cute babies that we will nurture them to be a good person? like me, i also want to get married. although i don't know when i can get married. (huhu~)
For me, married is not like we TRY AND ERROR. here, i take some ideas the reason why people get married.
FIRST, we get married because it is a human requirement. it is a human nature that we can't deny. we need to love others and the same time, we need also somebody to love us. also, marriage is the way that ALLAH has bestowed upon us for us to full fill our sexual requirement. our partner is halal (legal) for us.
SECONDLY, we get married for the purposes of continuation the human being. once you get married, you will plan to have children. then, when your children get married, they also will plan for having children. so that, the human race will not perish from the planet's earth.
THIRDLY, we get married as it is the process towards good civilization. if we trace back the history of any civilization, you will see and understand that the core of civilization of the society. and the core of society is islam. so, by have the marriage, having a husband, wife, children and nurture them to be a good person, it means we built a good family and human resources that will benefit the ummah.
Thats some ideas that i'm very agree with it. still remembered what's my lovely umi said about married. "when we want to get married, be prepared of your soul. it is very important things that we have to think of it. married not just for one day, one months and one year, but we want to be forever.
Actually, i'm still young (^_~) to talking about married. but, i think it is not wrong. am i right? i want to get prepared and hope may ALLAH bless my mission to built a married in ALLAH'S love, insyallah.
~HUSBAND to be RESPECT, WIFE to be PROTECT, CHILDREN to be NURTURE & LIFE to be SAVIOR~
~Married is not only fun, but it must be responsible too~